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Does she act out Frozen all day? The Elsa doll lets her play the queen herself, while a girl who loves matching games can call out pictures with Zingo bingo.
Sick dolls need a hospital, and the Barbie Care Clinic makes room for a preschooler who patches up every patient.
Its maker labels it for ages 3 and up, so her own memories of waiting rooms become stories she directs. Her crayon chart of cured patients ends up taped beside the playset.
Elsa rules the rug kingdom of a four-year-old who sings every song from the movie word for word.
Those memorized lyrics get a heroine she can carry, turn and march through each verse herself. The doll then keeps her place by the sofa until the next chorus starts.
Three figures come with the ambulance, enough for a driver, a medic and someone who needs help, so the doctor games she plays at home get a full crew at toy size.
Pick it for a girl who likes moving small figures around; one who mainly doctors her dolls at full size may get more out of a toy medical kit.
Cops and robbers has moved from the preschool playground into the house, and this LEGO City set gives the chase a police motorcycle she clicks together herself, plus minifigures for both sides.
It is one of LEGO's sets for ages 4 and up, so the build is pitched at her age, with help nearby for the trickier steps.
Zingo is made for pre-readers, which means a four-year-old can sit down with older players and win without help, because matches go to the quickest eyes, not the strongest reader.
When the grandparents visit, she can hand out the cards and beat the adults fair and square.
Seven candles and mix-and-match toppings mean this wooden cake can be decorated differently every time she brings it out, and the decorating is half the party.
A grown-up who sings along and then asks for the serving with the most toppings is all the guest list this party needs.
Held on the lawn, the Elsa wand sends a shimmering stream floating past a Frozen fan who wants her heroine outside too.
Its maker labels it for ages 3 and up, so the toy stays in her hands, not a grown-up's. Its stream keeps coming as she spins in circles, chasing each shiny sphere.
On a slow morning at home, a four-year-old who invents quarrels and reunions for her toys can voice a whole pony cast.
Each member of the group is a separate character, so she picks a voice and a temper for every one. Her settled quarrel ends with the whole group nose to nose on the rug.
Walks, meals, playtime and naps each get their own piece in this New York Doll Collection set: a stroller, a high chair, a bouncer and a crib, in a butterfly design.
Her baby's whole day runs on her schedule, from lunch in the chair to a lap around the living room. Before buying, check that her doll stands 18 inches tall or less.
Pretend parenting comes naturally to a four-year-old who copies every step she sees a grown-up take with an infant.
She wants a little one to look after, and here she decides when it eats, rests and goes out. Her finished nursery corner stays set up by her bedroom door, its tiny resident waiting for the next feeding.
Delta Children South Beach toy doll house for imaginative play
When her small dolls need somewhere to live, this dollhouse gives a preschool girl rooms to furnish and daily scenes to invent.
Where the Polly Pocket panda set keeps stories compact and the baby doll set centres on feeding routines, this pick offers a roomier home base that welcomes the dolls she already owns.
Ravensburger GraviTrax Junior marble run building set
The GraviTrax Junior jungle marble run gives a four-year-old a course to snap together on the floor.
Ravensburger rates it for ages 3 to 7, a span she is just stepping into. She can send the marble down, see where it stops and move a piece to fix the route.
This LEGO set turns into a racer she steers by remote across the floor, ready for a four-year-old who replays Toy Story scenes.
She knows the films well, and a model that drives lets her movie games carry on after the last brick. Its celebration train stays parked while the car circles back for another lap.
Magna-Tiles Castle DLX lets a princess-story fan build her own castle from magnetic pieces.
Towers go up on the rug, a wall gets a gate, and her dolls move in for the evening. When the story changes, the castle comes apart and turns into a new kingdom.
Nobody waits for a turn in Hungry Hungry Hippos, and that is the appeal at four.
Every player races at once, and a round ends before anyone gets restless. The giant version is more party game than quiet board game, with space for a few friends to kneel all around it.
Your family's evening of play can welcome a four-year-old who hates sitting on the sidelines, with a reef board of her own.
Its labeled range runs from ages 3 to 8, so older siblings stay keen while she joins near the start. Her homemade scorecard, with her name on top, stays tacked beside the box.
Mudpuppy Rainforest Sticker Play jungle sticker activity
Ordinary stickers leave no room for a change of mind, since the first one in the wrong spot stays there for good.
Mudpuppy's rainforest animals peel up and press down again, which lets a misplaced creature move up a tree a minute later, and the jungle never has to be finished.
A girl who loves Pokémon keeps her coloring things in her own Squirtle case from Crayola.
Her favorite character comes along whenever she sits down to make a picture. At the kitchen table, she can spread everything out and make a card for a grandparent.
Any four-year-old who makes pictures all day can watch her art glow once the room goes dim.
She invents a scene for every story she tells, and here each scene shines once it is done. The toy then sits on her dresser, showing off her newest creation to anyone who walks in.
Play-Doh's Kitchen Creations restaurant set gives a four-year-old fond of cooking games a dough kitchen to run.
She likes feeding her stuffed animals, so she shapes every dish by hand and sets the menu. On a weekend morning, a grandparent can sit across the table and place an order.
This talking set suits a preschooler who points at every picture in a book and asks what it is called.
Instead of waiting for a grown-up to answer, she hears each name herself and repeats it as often as she likes. Its pile of pictures shrinks with every one she calls out on her own.
The Stomp Rocket Jr Glow is a glow-in-the-dark rocket launcher for a preschooler with energy to burn outdoors.
She stomps on the pad herself, so the launching is her job, not a grown-up's. Then she chases each glowing rocket across the grass as the evening light fades.
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Questions and answers
Can a 4-year-old play any of these games with older siblings?
Yes. Zingo bingo is made for pre-readers, so she can sit down with the big kids and win on her own, and the giant hippo party game has everyone racing at once with no waiting.
What should you get a girl who looks after her dolls like a little parent?
The Barbie Care Clinic gives her sick dolls a hospital to recover in, while the JC Toys baby doll closes its eyes when she lays it down for a nap.
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Removed Wonder Forge Disney character picture pairing game for family play.
Removed Masterpieces World of Animals memory pairs game.
Removed Chuckle & Roar baby animal pairs game for family table play.
Removed Lehoo Castle dollhouse for everyday doll family stories.
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