Many 4-year-olds like to be a helper, and most can catch a large ball and hold a crayon between fingers and thumb.
Gifts that let her do real things, like pouring, drawing or playing catch, feel grown-up and fun. Take a look at our picks for a four-year-old girl.
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Games and puzzles
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A four-year-old girl who knows every Bluey episode gets her favorite character in a pop-up family game.
TOMY grades it for ages 4 and up, so she joins older siblings at the table rather than watching. After dinner, she can bring it to the living room floor and ask a grandparent for a round.
Dolls and figures
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Sick dolls need a hospital, and the Barbie Care Clinic makes room for a preschooler who patches up every patient.
Its maker labels it for ages 3 and up, so her own memories of waiting rooms become stories she directs. Her crayon chart of cured patients ends up taped beside the playset.
Arts and craftsAges 4+
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Pages in these Melissa & Doug books fill up with puffy pieces that a four-year-old places wherever she likes.
Telling tales about her toys is how she plays now, so each sheet becomes a stage for her next plot.
Dolls and figuresAges 3+
Elsa rules the rug kingdom of a four-year-old who sings every song from the movie word for word.
Those memorized lyrics get a heroine she can carry, turn and march through each verse herself. The doll then keeps her place by the sofa until the next chorus starts.
Vehicles
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Three figures come with the ambulance, enough for a driver, a medic and someone who needs help, so the doctor games she plays at home get a full crew at toy size.
Pick it for a girl who likes moving small figures around; one who mainly doctors her dolls at full size may get more out of a toy medical kit.
Building setsAges 4+
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Cops and robbers has moved from the preschool playground into the house, and this LEGO City set gives the chase a police motorcycle she clicks together herself, plus minifigures for both sides.
It is one of LEGO's sets for ages 4 and up, so the build is pitched at her age, with help nearby for the trickier steps.
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Polly Pocket sets open like a compact to reveal a whole tiny scene, then close again with everything tucked inside, easy to carry from room to room.
This panda one leans toward cuddly toys rather than fashion, a good match for an animal lover who likes her toys tiny.
Ages 3+
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Borrowed scarves and her mom's shoes are a good sign a Barbie Fashionistas doll will see plenty of use.
The doll comes with an accessory, and every look after that is hers to put together. It is also small enough to ride along in a backpack when she visits a friend.
Lay the baby down and its eyes close; lift it up and they open again, a small detail that makes nap time convincing to a preschooler.
A bottle, a rattle and a pacifier come with the doll too, and the baby can be fed and soothed on day one.
Bluey hardly ever plays a game without Bingo, and pretend play at home runs the same way, since one pup needs a sister to boss around.
Both arrive in this soft, embroidered pair, ready to share her pillow at night and squabble in the back seat by morning.
Ages 3+
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Skipper's babysitting job flips the usual arrangement, since a four-year-old is normally the one being babysat; now the sitter answers to her.
If a favorite sitter visits in real life, the brunette Skipper doll can borrow that sitter's games and bedtime rules.
Mischief comes built in with Stitch, and a young fan of the movie has a plot ready the moment she picks up a figure.
The included accessories turn into props for whatever scheme he is hatching, and as collectible figures they can be the start of a lineup that grows.
On a slow morning at home, a four-year-old who invents quarrels and reunions for her toys can voice a whole pony cast.
Each member of the group is a separate character, so she picks a voice and a temper for every one. Her settled quarrel ends with the whole group nose to nose on the rug.
Walks, meals, playtime and naps each get their own piece in this New York Doll Collection set: a stroller, a high chair, a bouncer and a crib, in a butterfly design.
Her baby's whole day runs on her schedule, from lunch in the chair to a lap around the living room. Before buying, check that her doll stands 18 inches tall or less.
When her small dolls need somewhere to live, this dollhouse gives a preschool girl rooms to furnish and daily scenes to invent.
Where the Polly Pocket panda set keeps stories compact and the baby doll set centres on feeding routines, this pick offers a roomier home base that welcomes the dolls she already owns.
Pretend parenting comes naturally to a four-year-old who copies every step she sees a grown-up take with an infant.
She wants a little one to look after, and here she decides when it eats, rests and goes out. Her finished nursery corner stays set up by her bedroom door, its tiny resident waiting for the next feeding.
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Zingo is made for pre-readers, which means a four-year-old can sit down with older players and win without help, because matches go to the quickest eyes, not the strongest reader.
When the grandparents visit, she can hand out the cards and beat the adults fair and square.
Ages 4+
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Anyone who watches Paw Patrol knows every pup's face and color, and in a jigsaw those details become the clues.
The box holds two 24-piece puzzles, so one can be finished side by side with a parent and the other saved for a try on her own.
Nobody waits for a turn in Hungry Hungry Hippos, and that is the appeal at four.
Every player races at once, and a round ends before anyone gets restless. The giant version is more party game than quiet board game, with space for a few friends to kneel all around it.
Your family's evening of play can welcome a four-year-old who hates sitting on the sidelines, with a reef board of her own.
Its labeled range runs from ages 3 to 8, so older siblings stay keen while she joins near the start. Her homemade scorecard, with her name on top, stays tacked beside the box.
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Family game night makes room for its youngest player with a first board game a preschool girl can follow without help.
She keeps the box by the couch and asks for a round whenever someone sits down.
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Ages 3 to 7
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The GraviTrax Junior jungle marble run gives a four-year-old a course to snap together on the floor.
Ravensburger rates it for ages 3 to 7, a span she is just stepping into. She can send the marble down, see where it stops and move a piece to fix the route.
Ages 4+
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This LEGO set turns into a racer she steers by remote across the floor, ready for a four-year-old who replays Toy Story scenes.
She knows the films well, and a model that drives lets her movie games carry on after the last brick. Its celebration train stays parked while the car circles back for another lap.
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Magna-Tiles Castle DLX lets a princess-story fan build her own castle from magnetic pieces.
Towers go up on the rug, a wall gets a gate, and her dolls move in for the evening. When the story changes, the castle comes apart and turns into a new kingdom.
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Drawing on toys is usually against the rules, and Scribble Scrubbies pets are the exception, made to be colored from nose to tail.
There are four in the pack, each ready for its own look, and every design washes off, which means no pet is stuck with yesterday's spots for long.
Ordinary stickers leave no room for a change of mind, since the first one in the wrong spot stays there for good.
Mudpuppy's rainforest animals peel up and press down again, which lets a misplaced creature move up a tree a minute later, and the jungle never has to be finished.
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A girl who loves Pokémon keeps her coloring things in her own Squirtle case from Crayola.
Her favorite character comes along whenever she sits down to make a picture. At the kitchen table, she can spread everything out and make a card for a grandparent.
Ages 3+
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Unicorn doodles fill every page of a four-year-old who decorates each card and drawing she makes for family.
She holds the stamper and presses a sticker wherever she likes, so her favorite creature ends up on every page.
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This Play-Doh garden playset has molds that press out dough flowers, a good match for a 4-year-old who likes nature play.
She can arrange the blooms in a vase and flower pot. Then a bouquet sits on the table for everyone to see.
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Play-Doh's Kitchen Creations restaurant set gives a four-year-old fond of cooking games a dough kitchen to run.
She likes feeding her stuffed animals, so she shapes every dish by hand and sets the menu. On a weekend morning, a grandparent can sit across the table and place an order.
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Ages 3+
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Seven candles and mix-and-match toppings mean this wooden cake can be decorated differently every time she brings it out, and the decorating is half the party.
A grown-up who sings along and then asks for the serving with the most toppings is all the guest list this party needs.
The preschooler who lines up her dolls and asks what they would like can set a unicorn table for them.
She copies every grown-up who offers coffee to a visitor, and now the pouring and passing around are her job.
Electronics
This talking set suits a preschooler who points at every picture in a book and asks what it is called.
Instead of waiting for a grown-up to answer, she hears each name herself and repeats it as often as she likes. Its pile of pictures shrinks with every one she calls out on her own.
Electronics
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A preschool Toy Story fan carries this Lilypad from room to room, tapping into games while you make dinner.
It stays on her shelf beside the rest of her Toy Story toys.
MusicAges 3+
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Dance breaks in the living room get their own DJ once a preschooler can pick the record and start the music herself.
Fisher-Price marks it for ages 3 and up, so she runs it without help from day one.
Outdoor and sports
Held on the lawn, the Elsa wand sends a shimmering stream floating past a Frozen fan who wants her heroine outside too.
Its maker labels it for ages 3 and up, so the toy stays in her hands, not a grown-up's. Its stream keeps coming as she spins in circles, chasing each shiny sphere.
Outdoor and sports
The Stomp Rocket Jr Glow is a glow-in-the-dark rocket launcher for a preschooler with energy to burn outdoors.
She stomps on the pad herself, so the launching is her job, not a grown-up's. Then she chases each glowing rocket across the grass as the evening light fades.
Books
A four-year-old moon spotter gets National Geographic Kids' First Big Book of Space to share with a parent.
The publisher rates it for ages 3 to 7, so it fits her now and for years ahead. At bedtime, she can pick a planet and hear about it before lights out.
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Yes. Zingo bingo is made for pre-readers, so she can sit down with the big kids and win on her own, and the giant hippo party game has everyone racing at once with no waiting.
The Barbie Care Clinic gives her sick dolls a hospital to recover in, while the JC Toys baby doll closes its eyes when she lays it down for a nap.
A girl who races around the yard can stomp the Stomp Rocket Jr Glow and chase the rocket, or wave the Elsa bubble wand across the lawn.
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