Pediatricians say many preteens feel as if their friends are always judging them, and that this is a normal stage.
A Christmas gift that lets him show off a new skill when school starts again can be a quiet confidence boost. Look for something he'll be proud of, starting with the list below.
Starlux Games Redux glowing capture-the-flag team game
Outdoor and sports
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Redux from Starlux Games makes capture the flag a glowing nighttime chase for a preteen boy's crew.
Each raid on the rival flag comes down to his speed and the sneakiest route he picks. After dinner, the neighborhood kids grab jackets and head to the backyard for another round.
With this Sphero ball and the free Sphero app on a phone or tablet, a mini golf course built from books on the rug becomes a coding puzzle.
He writes the path in the Sphero Edu app and watches whether the ball curves around the obstacles to the finish. Each miss sends him back to adjust a turn or a speed and try again.
With the pindaloo, a quick-handed preteen keeps the balls circling in a juggling-style streak.
Its maker labels it Age 9+, and every longer run comes down to his own timing. On the driveway, he counts each pass aloud and starts over after a miss.
Because the JBL Go 4 is rated IP67 against water and dust, it can ride to the pool in his backpack and come home with no one fussing over splashes or grit.
Songs stream from his phone over Bluetooth, each one his pick, and the built-in battery lasts through a long afternoon.
Blue Marble National Geographic treasure-hunting metal detector
Lost coins hide in most park lawns.
With this National Geographic detector, he sweeps the grass slowly, stops when it picks up metal, then digs to see whether he found a quarter or a bottle cap. As a starter kit made for kids, it lets him run the hunt himself without borrowing a grown-up's gear.
Flashlights and old remotes tend to end up in pieces on his desk, which makes this hydraulic kit from Thames & Kosmos a natural next project.
He builds both boxing robots, hydraulics included, so he sees exactly what drives every punch. Then a friend steps up to run the second bot, and round one begins.
Blue Marble National Geographic glowing science kit
Once the bedroom lamp clicks off, a curious boy forever asking why gets to see whether his experiments really glow.
He wants answers he spots for himself, not just reads about, and results that light up in the dark deliver them. His brightest creation sits on the nightstand, shining whenever the room goes black.
Ravensburger Minecraft: Builders & Biomes tabletop strategy game
Ages 10+
German brand
This Minecraft board game puts the world a preteen fan knows on the family table.
It plays with two to four players, so he can sit down against his parents or a sibling. Over the holiday break, he plans each build to stay a step ahead of everyone.
A 72-piece Pokémon puzzle ball turns a preteen fan's favorite characters into a round jigsaw.
He lines up each character as the picture wraps around the curve, unlike a flat jigsaw. Once finished, the ball sits on his desk next to his trading card binder.
Rubik's Rush puts a Rubik's brain teaser in the hands of a puzzle-loving preteen boy.
Beating his own last effort is what drives him, so he keeps it gripped in both hands for another round. Over winter break, it waits on his nightstand for a go before lights out.
For a giver after something a patient boy can return to for days, this RoseArt puzzle lays out a busy festival crowd.
He enjoys detailed work at his own pace, and every corner of the fair gives him a small hunt of its own. The finished scene ends up propped on his bookshelf.
The Mind makes teammates of the whole family, a fit for a preteen card player.
Instead of guarding his hand, he watches faces and waits for the right moment to lay a card. After Christmas dinner, he deals a hand while the dishes wait in the sink.
Ravensburger's Solar System jigsaw puzzle gives a space-mad boy the planets to piece together himself.
The maker rates it for ages 9 and up, so he can sort the pieces without help. Over the holiday break, he spreads it across the kitchen table and fits each planet into place.
Made for a Harry Potter reader who spots the culprit before the last chapter, this Clue edition hands him the case.
He trusts his own hunches over any narrator's, and here each accusation comes from him rather than the book. The board comes out after Christmas dinner, with his parents seated as rival detectives.
Hasbro Gaming Monopoly Batman Edition superhero tabletop game
Whether the Batman fan on your list reads comics or quotes movies, this Monopoly edition turns family deal-making into his hero's turf.
The grown-ups know the rules, so he picks the theme and gets the whole family playing on his terms. The board gets unfolded on the living room floor whenever a cousin asks for a rematch.
This Marvin's Magic trick kit hands a secret-keeping preteen boy a hobby he performs for an audience.
He rehearses each trick until the moves look smooth, and nobody learns how it works. Over the holiday break, he puts on a short show for relatives in the living room.
Unwrapped on Christmas morning, a big set of Sakura Koi brush pens takes the comic strips he draws past plain pencil.
One brush tip gives him thick and thin strokes, much like the inked pages in the comics he studies. The same set covers coloring the panels, shading them and lettering the title.
This LEGO Star Wars starship brings Grogu aboard as a minifigure, a fit for a preteen Mandalorian fan.
He puts the ship together himself, then seats Grogu aboard and dreams up fresh missions. Between missions, the finished ship parks on a desk shelf within easy reach.
If the boy on your list dribbles down the hallway every chance he gets, hand him a rim of his own.
A boy his age copies moves from pro highlights, and this hoop gives them a target steps from his bed. Before the school bus comes, he can call a buzzer-beater like a sportscaster and let it fly.
Bathroom humor gets a mascot in Fuggler Fart Face, a homely plush for the preteen class clown.
The name does the talking, so he just introduces it when a friend asks who that is. Between visits, it sits on his windowsill with its homely face turned toward the door.
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Questions and answers
Which games put the whole family on the same team?
The Mind card game has everyone watching faces to play cards at just the right moment, while the Crew card game sends the table on missions it wins or loses together.
What could you give a boy who likes to put on a show?
Rehearsing until nobody can spot the trick is his style, and the Marvin's Magic kit gives him a short show to perform for relatives in the living room.
Is there something for an 11-year-old who loves space?
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